10-22-2012, 08:40 PM
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with his permission, have you talked to his doctor? Is there a possibility that his condition could get worse. what could you do to make life better for him and does he want you to do this for him?
Even though he is drop dead gorgeous many relationships are based on what the partners bring to the table. Consider what he can give you, other than good looks. Can he appreciate what you would bring to the table for him? Are you willing to take care of him (sickness and in health) thingy.
mattp Wrote:... He is extremely attractive, I just don't know if he would like me, if he didn't have his health issues. I feel a bit like a 'second choice'. This is mainly because I contact him 80% of the time ...if he were sorta ugly would you still be attracted to him? I ask because relationships are based on a lot of thins not so much on the physical. This is a red flag that stands out in your post.
mattp Wrote:H ... there is a 1 hr 40 min distance between us ...if you two are not able to re locate this may be a larger than expected issue. would you be there if he got into trouble? would he be able to think through the issues of a distance relationship
with his permission, have you talked to his doctor? Is there a possibility that his condition could get worse. what could you do to make life better for him and does he want you to do this for him?
Even though he is drop dead gorgeous many relationships are based on what the partners bring to the table. Consider what he can give you, other than good looks. Can he appreciate what you would bring to the table for him? Are you willing to take care of him (sickness and in health) thingy.
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