10-24-2012, 09:36 AM
dfiant Wrote:G day and welcome...just for the record, poofters are not effeminate...effeminate people are effeminate...Gay men like gay men, you know, like real men that talk in a husky voice, drink beer, scratch their balls, swear and watch football?
I don't understand how being well built is going to affect you finding a relationship with another man...you need to get over stereotypes before you can feel comfortable with yourself.
Agreed good sir but then again these could be considered stereotypes as well.
"but i feel as if my working out ruins my chances of being attractive."
...wait what? If you feel comfortable working out and still want to be the less dominate one in a relationship, this is acceptable, Nathan. A good man will accept you for who you are. You just have to be comfortable in your own skin first.
"I'm sure this is cliche but I am very new to all of this,"
I laughed. Most days I still question if the guys I find attractive are actually attractive and not just something I think to make myself different from everyone else.
Hope you find that thing in life that makes you happy. And no I am not talking about a guy. Instead of looking for love, focus more on what makes or what you think would make you happy.
Here is a couple of sheep using jump ropes to bring a chuckle (hopefully) into your life.