10-25-2012, 04:42 AM
That's pretty standard for traditional, fundamental type families. You can't change them or force them to accept you being gay, they have to do that themselves, on their own.
All you can do is be yourself and wait for them to come to terms with you, if they ever do.
They may not but, they may when they see that being gay has not ruined you happiness and, you are creating a good life for yourself.
I know it isn't easy, and you want their acceptance, but for now maybe you can find that acceptance in friends or even other relatives and, let your immediate family come to it in their own time, if at all.
All you can do is be yourself and wait for them to come to terms with you, if they ever do.
They may not but, they may when they see that being gay has not ruined you happiness and, you are creating a good life for yourself.
I know it isn't easy, and you want their acceptance, but for now maybe you can find that acceptance in friends or even other relatives and, let your immediate family come to it in their own time, if at all.