How are you today?

[SrChulo]

Settled my huge project yesterday. Almost had tears as I was under a huge stress. (...)

wow... sounds like a hectic lifestyle. I was just reading up on investing in up and coming designers. Wish i had money

My day was incredible! I had Thanksgiving (late, i know) here in spain w/ a bunch of my friends and my sister. It was my first time hosting really anything, and it went SO smoothly. Everyone brought a dish though. Still, we ended up cooking about 5 dishes here. We have a ton of leftovers.

Okay, I'm going to vent a bit now. Skip to the end if you don't want to read it.


...Then my night took a turn. My bf and I had planned to sleep together at his place tonight. He, by the way, is still embarrassed that my sister knows we're gay & together. -_- I am not out to my roommate yet, however, who "saw" us leave together (I didn't care.. i told him "we're going out" anyway!... not a big deal to me. )

So we had an amazing few hours, it was really really fun, we had some "other" kind of fun also , and then we're just laying there, falling asleep, around 2 AM, and he goes "So, are you staying/ leaving or what?"

:mad: Honestly that just pissed me off. It had been PAINFULLY obvious that my intention was to sleep there, and he knew this. He has done this many times. I'll call and say "when should I come over?" if we had made plans. If he responds with "Pues tu que quieres hacer?" ("well, what do YOU want to do?") "...because tomorrow I have this and this and we should do it tomorrow night... etc" that means he doesn't want me to come, but he won't admit that it is HIM deciding. He tries to get me to believe that I don't want to come. I'll tell him 5 times in a conversation that I want to come over, but he keeps responding with "well what do you want to do?"

This time he told me it was because of my roommate knowing that I'd be sleeping out at his house....

He is definitely embarrassed about that. I wish he didn't care about MY roommate knowing we're together. He's MY roommate, MY friend.... they just met like 1 month ago. But I do try to respect his opinions on it.

Anyway, we spoke. I did not back down.

As he saw me packing my things to go, he went from
laughing & joking about it... to
"I didnt' do anything wrong" to
"This is a cultural difference, I didn't mean that!" to
"Ok, Stay here with me tonight.... "
"I didn't do it to get you mad" (no shit!) to
sarcastic remarks, trying to get me riled up... to
"I'm sorry, forgive me"

That is a VERY rare thing for him to say. Well, I went home and I am glad I did. In the past, he would have emerged victorious from that little discussion. Victorious in his case means me begging for forgiveness. This description and dialogue doesn't really do it justice, but it did end pretty well, and he feels bad for saying that.

I hope this doesn't come across as an overreaction, because i really don't think it was.