update on my situation

[Evan88]

They are all right.. Since they already mentioned talking to a counseling psychologist, and taking medications.. What can i say is I also dealt with a break up. And it's really damn hurtful if he was the one who called it quits...ugh.

I've been through the same but did not really go through depression maybe because I have a lot of things going on my mind before. I wanted him back but all he wanted is to become friends... So i stopped bothering him because I am appearing to be pathetic.

But what i thought before to feel better was... Care about myself... Self improvement. I lived before happily without you, so why can't I now that you left me? I would look more unattractive to him if he will know I was so damn affected with the break up.

So, what I did is to play it cool. I literally burned all the memories, letters, pictures, you name it.. I cried a lot in a day till there's nothing left. After I cried all of those tears, I was okay the other day and found some new hobbies.. I doubled my efforts to look good.. Then i travelled....Everything was bout myself.

I ignored him totally till he texted me one day that he still want to hang out with me... But the cool me already moved on. So now, we are friends.. Things are better. I have already let go.. And moved on. I did not need any medications because all I needed was myself. I understand it might be a different situation for you, but time heals all the pain..believe me.

Hence you are a handsome guy, so for sure someone there is waiting for you to hold you

All the best!