I really need advice please help!!!

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Also, most of you seem to have thought that he is mentally disabled and dangerous. Guys, I'm not an idiot, yes it may have been stupid of me to give him my address, but i am a god judge of character, i wouldn't have done it unless i was 100% sure he wasn't dangerous or mean spirited, he is not. I have skyped him a couple times and had genuine conversations. he said that stuff about san fran and all that because he thought he really liked me or something i dunno, im not trying to stand up for him, more for myself.
Telling my parents isn't the issue, it's the shock they'll get when they open that envelope, which is totally out of my control

you can be a very good judge of character but it is something that does not apply to online conversations. it is in the body language where character shows. dry words on the internet don't reveal a person's tone of voice, his comport, nervousness, etc.

also it is impossible to reconcile blackmail and personal threats with ''not mean-spirited''. you correctly identified him as ''weird'' after he wanted you to move in with him from some internet convos alone. that was an absolutely correct judgment to make.

i'd like to quote something else you said in your first post:

And he got really mad and said that he would screenshot the convos we'd had (most of which were not exactly PG) as well as some pictures id sent him and he would send them in the mail to my parents with no name so they'd open it and see it.

this is not a normal reaction. and this is not a nice guy. he may not be insane but he has issues.

the simple fact alone that he wanted to do all those things -- fly you to San Francisco, and have you move in -- when all he'd ever known you from was an online convo -- says this guy is not safe. you initially made the right call by telling him that you wouldn't even stay in touch with him and that is exactly what you should do right now. if your parents know, all the better. and i'm also sure, that if you tell your parents that you talked to a guy on the internet and he turned weird wanting you to move in and then threatening you, they will understand should the envelope finally arrive, if it ever does. believe me, your parents would much rather deal with some naked pictures of you and some dirty talk, than you going and meeting this guy in person.

also -- your parents are not clueless. they already know that a boy your age has sex on his mind. non-PG rated content will hardly shock them. it might make you uncomfortable having your parents see that content and that is a normal feeling, but it's not as bad as you think it will be.

DO NOT meet this guy and stop talking to him.

good luck.