Not quite sexual guy, I guess..

[meridannight]

Could it be that I'm too young for sexual things? I even offered him to break up, he didn't even want to hear about it. He says he's satisfied with everything between us. He's says he's happy with me. I'm happy with him too, but this is not how relationships should work, right? We're supposed to have sex, right?

you are definitely not too young for sexual things. but once or twice a month is way below an average for a guy your age. i'm 31 and i need to get off at least once a day, whether with another guy or by masturbating.

i'm not saying everybody needs to be a horn-dog but -- have you always had such a low sex drive or is this a recent development?