08-24-2014, 12:54 PM
AlfredMamza Wrote:There you have it. Body image issue. This is something that could be work with,probably easier with a psychologist. As for lower sexual drive,yeah,you'll have to consult a doctor for that,but at least you do masturbate few times a month.
Totally agree with you Mamza and Twist, I sense a low self-esteem issue there and this can only be fixed if you consult a psychologist to find out where the roots of your issue is. At 18 having a low sex drive is indeed problematic, if you were 50 and more I wouldn't be surprised since the level of testoterone tend to go low, but not at 18, at 18 I was masturbating at least three times a day for 3 days in a row and having sex at least 4 times a week. And even when I met my 19 years old babe at 29 I had to satisfy him on a daily basis.
A relationship doesn't automatically means that you need to have sex, it seems to me that your boyfriend is okay with that or he would have left you a while ago, but do realize that somehow you will need to satisfy his urges. Have you talked with your BF regarding that lack of interest for sex? You might want to let him know because at some point he will expect something from you.
Do check with a doctor Ops, and sign in for few session for self esteem it will only do you good, religion and other social issue aren't always the culprit in people's problem. I have met many people who are just not comfortable with themselves regardless of their social and religious status.