Do you fall for guys who treat you badly?

[Phil]

I guess you're probably right, yeah, it certainly doesn't help.

In a way when I was with those guys I hoped that if I did everything I could to be the ideal boyfriend that they might want to treat me better as a result. And actually, I felt like I must be failing somehow when they didn't

It's hard to change people ...regardless as to how "ideal" ya try to become....third time lucky and all that ...wait for someone who'll appreciate ya back!