Need sex advise on new relationship (lack of sex)

[mcl0325]

Hi everyone! I started seeing a guy recently and I need advise on a problem we're having with our sex life. We've been seeing each other for almost 4 months and we've yet to have sex. Every thing else about the relationship is great! We get along perfectly and have so much fun together. We've already done the "I love you" but for some reason sex hasn't happened. We've messed around only a handful of times and only when I initiate it. He sleeps over often and every night I try to get him into it but he stops me and says he wants to go to bed. Other times he just stops me and pulls away and acts like he wants to do something else. Even during the times we do mess around, it's just me taking care of him and pleasuring him while I have to take care of myself at the end. In the beginning of the relationship he mentioned he got out of a bad relationship a year and a half ago, hasn't been with anyone else, and it was his first love and it messed him up and he needed time to open up about sex but now it's just ridiculous. I've talked to him about it again 2 weeks ago and he said he's too scared I'm going to reject him or something. Like he's too insecure. He's a very attractive guy with a nice body! Amazing penis! I understand insecurity but now I just think it's me. I feel like I'm a really cute guy! I do have a little bit of a tummy, but not fat or anything. Maybe he doesn't like it? The thing is he's told me before he's always horny and gets himself off at least once every day if not more. I'm just at a loss here on to what could be wrong. Anyone have any ideas what to do? What could be wrong?