Need sex advise on new relationship (lack of sex)

[Bowyn Aerrow]

"In the beginning of the relationship he mentioned he got out of a bad relationship a year and a half ago, hasn't been with anyone else, and it was his first love and it messed him up and he needed time to open up about sex but now it's just ridiculous."

This makes a lot of sense - more than you understand.

Until he can work through whatever baggage is left over from the first, he most likely will not have much interest in sex.

First loves are the hardest to get over.