02-26-2015, 12:34 AM
Damn. you and this guy need to get together for coffee and a box of kleenex.
https://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=544971#post544971
From knowing guys IRL and then seeing so many posts about it I'm working on a theory that's not going to be popular with anyone.
I'm beginning to believe that guys who get involved in "relationships" without sex are really deep down very manipulative and using the lack of sex to get other things out of it. Maybe not money, or anything like that. One guy I know IRL was in a sexless relationship for a few months that ended when the guy not wanting sex came into money to buy his own keyboards for his band and didn't need to borrow keyboards from my friend anymore.
And as far as the excuse he's given about having been in a bad relationship and having trouble opening up -- that's just an excuse and you can bet it's not the real reason.
You're the first guy I've read in a long time on threads like this who's admitted to being out of shape or having a weight problem. All the guys I've known IRL in situations like yours have either been overweight or in one case, severely handicapped. Easy targets for manipulative guys. When I read threads like this that's always the first thing I think about. Te best thing to do is work on improving yourself so that you don't have to ever worry about that again with any other guys.
https://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=544971#post544971
From knowing guys IRL and then seeing so many posts about it I'm working on a theory that's not going to be popular with anyone.
I'm beginning to believe that guys who get involved in "relationships" without sex are really deep down very manipulative and using the lack of sex to get other things out of it. Maybe not money, or anything like that. One guy I know IRL was in a sexless relationship for a few months that ended when the guy not wanting sex came into money to buy his own keyboards for his band and didn't need to borrow keyboards from my friend anymore.
And as far as the excuse he's given about having been in a bad relationship and having trouble opening up -- that's just an excuse and you can bet it's not the real reason.
You're the first guy I've read in a long time on threads like this who's admitted to being out of shape or having a weight problem. All the guys I've known IRL in situations like yours have either been overweight or in one case, severely handicapped. Easy targets for manipulative guys. When I read threads like this that's always the first thing I think about. Te best thing to do is work on improving yourself so that you don't have to ever worry about that again with any other guys.
![[-]](https://gayspeak.com/images/duende_v3_local/collapse.png)
