Gay men, relationship-phobia, and genuinity

[Drew]

I don't owe them anymore than they owe me. And for living nearby to one of the "deepest wells of intellect and culture in the western world" - I suppose you're referring to my proximity to Yale? Dating Yalies - been there, done that, not for me. Every single one I've ever dated was either full of themselves or crazy. I'm in my mid-thirties; I don't share the same world view or relationship goals as most 20-something Ivy-leaguers.

I dunno. I knew airing my grievances publicly would be perceived negatively. Why is that? Pretty mucj anything else, people show compassion. 30-something that just can't make that spark happen with other guys? Shit show. Thanks.