05-21-2016, 09:12 PM
Dint worry about the triple posting buddy - Gay speak doesn't have moderators , it does have Andy the site owner who set up a script where new members have to have a certain amount of posts vetted first = its to prevent trolls and abusive postings , its a necessary part of the site as you can imagine that a gay friendly site would attract a far amount of abusive people ( it has in the past ) they get bored and leave usually as they cant post till a certain amount has been reached so nobody gets to see the abuse - hope this helps .... im sure others will post giving more help though