06-03-2016, 09:57 PM
Why are you so concerned with getting proof? It means nothing since you already think he's been cheating and with someone you have seen leaving your property, this and the recording has caused enough doubt that you clearly no longer trust your husband.
Waiting 4 months while you're both away from the property so you can devise a way to catch him is not a healthy way to deal with this, it will only cause for further fighting and hurt over this. You will be left with an underlying doubt over your husbands actions when you're not around.
I won't tell you whether you should be leaving your husband or not as I don't fully know your situation other then what you have put on here, you do need to actually think about what you want regardless of evidence and decide whether this marriage is worth saving or not.
Waiting 4 months while you're both away from the property so you can devise a way to catch him is not a healthy way to deal with this, it will only cause for further fighting and hurt over this. You will be left with an underlying doubt over your husbands actions when you're not around.
I won't tell you whether you should be leaving your husband or not as I don't fully know your situation other then what you have put on here, you do need to actually think about what you want regardless of evidence and decide whether this marriage is worth saving or not.
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