Looking for love in wrong places?

[LJay]

I am sure some other guys will comment here, but to start with you just have to realize that lot of guys on dating apps are not looking for long term friends or relationships. That means that if you want to go that way you have to be very patient.

You might have better luck if you try to meet guys in low pressure public settings. Clubs centered around an interest, sports, volunteer work, maybe even just being a regular at a decent coffee shop and willing to talk with others might help.

Of course it helps to take a good look in the mirror and try to see yourself as others see you--and not just physically.

Be patient and put your best foot forward. You will get there eventually.