09-23-2016, 04:30 PM
It might not be pleasant but it is part of growing pains when you integrate different cultures and ethnicities...
Look at New York and the neighborhoods....
My Dad was estranged from his mom..my Grandma..because in the all German neighborhood we lived in she was suspicious of Italians and all his best friends were Italian...and so was all the neighborhood where they lived...Italian.
A couple of generations later...it has pretty much died a natural death....so has a lot of other "fueds'...
My advice to you In the meantime..be part of the solution and not part of the problem and the transformation will be a lot quicker...
Actual change happens one person at a time. Be part of the change.
Look at New York and the neighborhoods....
My Dad was estranged from his mom..my Grandma..because in the all German neighborhood we lived in she was suspicious of Italians and all his best friends were Italian...and so was all the neighborhood where they lived...Italian.
A couple of generations later...it has pretty much died a natural death....so has a lot of other "fueds'...
My advice to you In the meantime..be part of the solution and not part of the problem and the transformation will be a lot quicker...
Actual change happens one person at a time. Be part of the change.