10-04-2016, 10:24 PM
I think you did the right thing. I cannot see a relationship like that working at all, and I certainly wouldn't pursue a long term relationship with someone that never intended to come out of the closet. That might just be me, but I came out to NOT have to sneak around for the rest of my life. You were not being a dick at all, he was being selfish expecting you to never be seen out with him and for you to sneak around forever. It is his decision of course to live that way but he shouldn't expect you to aswell.