10-04-2016, 10:55 PM
Been there... done that. I'm with Cridders on this one. It's very important (Imo) that those in a relationship are on the same page. He wants something totally different from you and if you can't imagine compromising to secrecy, then you made the right choice for YOU.
The very fact that he's broken it down to you as "someone may think he's gay if seen with you" tells me he cares too much of what people think. He'll never be happy that way. Can you? And if he never plans on coming out, then he has already planned out his future with you as just his dirty little secret. The moment someone finds out the truth, he's gonna blame you.
It's a life of lies. You don't want to be a part of that.
The very fact that he's broken it down to you as "someone may think he's gay if seen with you" tells me he cares too much of what people think. He'll never be happy that way. Can you? And if he never plans on coming out, then he has already planned out his future with you as just his dirty little secret. The moment someone finds out the truth, he's gonna blame you.
It's a life of lies. You don't want to be a part of that.
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