Relationship With A Guy Who's Closeted?

[CorsacReborn]

I dated a guy a few months before I met my partner who wanted to remain closeted forever to his family. Once he made me aware of this I made him aware that I was not willing to pretend to be someone else if I met his family. I pretty much got called every name under the sun, the irony of being called judgemental while being judged for not being secretive was more amusing to me then anything.

You did the right thing breaking it off, no one should ever ask you to act like you're something you're not. This guy needs to also respect your feelings, from how you write the OP you give the impression that you would have never been happy with this arrangement. Also being openly gay doesn't require you to go around and tell everyone, it means that you aren't going to hide just to suit those in the outside world.