10-08-2016, 11:15 AM
I agree too. I'm open and flamboyant gurl, always have been.
Tho I can say, I know for a lot of Gays both here and on other islands down south and most likely in other homophobic cultures, it's almost exclusively the only way that people can have relationships.
So I understand why some people do it, I have quite a few "discreet" or "DL" guys after me, especially because they know I'm gay. It's a double edge sword:
They don't wanna be alone and they don't wanna take risks with non-"out there" guys. Like themselves usually.
But ultimately, from what I've seen, guys here usually end up being fuck buddies or super DL house bodies, who never display their relationship to the light of day.
Tho I can say, I know for a lot of Gays both here and on other islands down south and most likely in other homophobic cultures, it's almost exclusively the only way that people can have relationships.
So I understand why some people do it, I have quite a few "discreet" or "DL" guys after me, especially because they know I'm gay. It's a double edge sword:
They don't wanna be alone and they don't wanna take risks with non-"out there" guys. Like themselves usually.
But ultimately, from what I've seen, guys here usually end up being fuck buddies or super DL house bodies, who never display their relationship to the light of day.
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