Relationship With A Guy Who's Closeted?

[Gemini]

I'm still closeted. BUT if I were to go on a date with some guy, I wouldn't have any problems going out to resturants, going with him in public and such.
I've come to the point where I'm not scared of what people would think.
Got this no f*cks given attitude to such these days. Goes for when people try to be mean to me too. It's a nice attitude xD

With how accepting it is to be gay in Norway, most of it at least, I don't feel the need to tell everyone I'm attracted to men. I would of course tell if I ever were to start dating a guy and like it.
My grandmother has a gay neighbour, she still likes him. My dad told me once that if one of his sons were to be gay, he'd still love us and such.
Still trying to figure out if I'm really gay though, hard to figure out when I don't go on date and such

I didn't mean this post to make closeted guys feel uncomfortable, I know there are many valid reasons why guys are not in a position to come out. My issue is that he didn't tell me the truth until after I had started to develop feelings for him. I felt manipulated. Like he was trying to lure me into a relationship and get a hold on me first, so I wouldn't walk away. And really, the closer was when he told me he never planned to come out.

I felt used.