Gemini
10-20-2016, 09:35 PM
I'm sorry, but it seems to me that you are SO overthinking this.
You said, "He said it's ok the way it is now (he being only a top and me the bottom), he still loves me very much".
Why do you doubt him? Is there anything he says or does that makes you feel he might be dissatisfied and looking to cheat?
If, as he says, he loves you, then he's willing to accept you (and your sex life) the way it is. Loving someone, having a real relationship, means that people accept each others needs and limitations. If he told you that there's something missing because you don't top him, I'd say Yeah, it's a problem. But he seems willing to accept you as you are. Stop doubting yourself and concentrate on the relationship itself. And relax and enjoy!
You said, "He said it's ok the way it is now (he being only a top and me the bottom), he still loves me very much".
Why do you doubt him? Is there anything he says or does that makes you feel he might be dissatisfied and looking to cheat?
If, as he says, he loves you, then he's willing to accept you (and your sex life) the way it is. Loving someone, having a real relationship, means that people accept each others needs and limitations. If he told you that there's something missing because you don't top him, I'd say Yeah, it's a problem. But he seems willing to accept you as you are. Stop doubting yourself and concentrate on the relationship itself. And relax and enjoy!
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