11-02-2011, 06:56 PM
Hey guys. Since me and my bf got together he was always bottom and i always top.
After about 5 month he told me he had NEVER been a top for anyone. So... i asked if he wanted to try it.
He said he does but is really nervous about being crap at it (bless him).
Anyway.... we got down n dirty one night and i told him to go for it that night. And he topped for the first time and was ok at it.
However.... its been another month now and he keeps wanting to top and keeps making excuses about why he cant bottom.
it will either be that he hasnt cleaned or that he has eaten the wrong food so it might be dodgey. He even said that he has a hemeroid lol. which i dont think he has because he hasnt been to see a doctor etc.
Do any of you think he may have changed his role preference to top and thats me buggered?
OR
Am i just reading too much into it and maybe he isnt making excuses?
I dont want to say anything because he might think im pressuring him into something he doesnt want to do any more.
Advice please
After about 5 month he told me he had NEVER been a top for anyone. So... i asked if he wanted to try it.
He said he does but is really nervous about being crap at it (bless him).
Anyway.... we got down n dirty one night and i told him to go for it that night. And he topped for the first time and was ok at it.
However.... its been another month now and he keeps wanting to top and keeps making excuses about why he cant bottom.
it will either be that he hasnt cleaned or that he has eaten the wrong food so it might be dodgey. He even said that he has a hemeroid lol. which i dont think he has because he hasnt been to see a doctor etc.
Do any of you think he may have changed his role preference to top and thats me buggered?
OR
Am i just reading too much into it and maybe he isnt making excuses?
I dont want to say anything because he might think im pressuring him into something he doesnt want to do any more.
Advice please