Are Sexual Rolls important when you get older?

[InbetweenDreams]

Older as in over 25. Sex roles as in top or bottom or whatever it is gender sex roles your into lol.

You saying I'm old?

Well I pretty much identify as a top, I picture myself being a top...but with exceptions, that being I would only bottom with the right guy and provided I figure out the details.

Not to drift way from the topic. I have to find someone to I guess play with sexually moreless.. My logic is whenever I do end up with my soulmate (which I may or may not have found but either way I feel like I am at any rate found traits in people who would be but yeah not going to dive into that) that I would switch role, only for them. There have been a few times where I moreless fantasized of that. I am generally more dominant sexually, very very few guys can make want to feel submissive as it usually makes me very uncomfortable....so there MUST be trust between me and another person.

As far as anal goes in general, I'm indifferent, sometimes it can be really good...and sometimes it shitty...yeah I have had pretty bad experiences, both ways. I have otherwise had bad experiences being bottom and for the most part not all that interested in trying again, unless I can be absolutely comfortable with whoever my partner ends up being..