11-22-2016, 06:21 AM
artyboy Wrote:Why do I feel like people don't like me?
Rang my mum today, she just doesn't seem to be interested in anything I say. I try ringing one of my closest friends and he doesn't answer the phone. This has been going on for months, years even.
It's my mates birthday this weekend, we used to go for a meal every year till 4 years ago now he doesn't really want to do anything with me any more. I know it's my disability that is causing the issue as they places he likes to eat have stairs and aren't disabled friendly. We don't go to cinema due to the same problem. So when times are like this he disappears and when he is about makes excuses why he can't do anything.
I'm getting bored of waiting for others to do things with me.
I tried to arrange a family meal for my birthday, no one seemed interested even though it was my 30th. They said they didn't do anything for their 30th so they didn't seem the point to do anything with me. Lovely attude indeed.
Starting to feel like no one wants anything do with me.
Honestly, I think you are over thinking this.
People change, it is as simple as that. I doubt it has anything to do with you, I would say the way they behave is more about them.
You may be the common denominator, but ultimately the way they behave is their problem, not yours. This should motivate you to broaden your horizons, so to speak, and find some new friends.
Come to Australia, I'll get ya pissed for your 30th.