02-05-2017, 09:23 PM
To be honest, when I was with my last ex. He did allot of stuff that I thought was weird or slightly irritated me. But the longer i was with him the less the little things bothered me and I just accepted them .
Some even became "cute". One of his weird things, when he was driveing he would like (imagine touching the tip of each finger to your thumb, in sequence, pinky to pointer finger) only he didnt simply touch the tips to his thumb, he actually overlapped the thumbnail with each of the finger nails of each finger. like if your trying to get something removed thats stuck under your nail.
I dont even know if he realized he did it. But when we drove sometimes I would hold his hand and at times he would just randomly start doing that with my hand, useing each of his fingers and each of mine. it was like a automatic thing haha. I was like oook, this is weird, but you like it? I wont interrupt.
then over time I attributed it as a quirk of his and found it adorable.
I guess overtime, with all things, you normalize behaviors. Bad or good. They only stand out at first because you arent use to them.
Some even became "cute". One of his weird things, when he was driveing he would like (imagine touching the tip of each finger to your thumb, in sequence, pinky to pointer finger) only he didnt simply touch the tips to his thumb, he actually overlapped the thumbnail with each of the finger nails of each finger. like if your trying to get something removed thats stuck under your nail.
I dont even know if he realized he did it. But when we drove sometimes I would hold his hand and at times he would just randomly start doing that with my hand, useing each of his fingers and each of mine. it was like a automatic thing haha. I was like oook, this is weird, but you like it? I wont interrupt.
then over time I attributed it as a quirk of his and found it adorable.
I guess overtime, with all things, you normalize behaviors. Bad or good. They only stand out at first because you arent use to them.