Gay or straight?

[baristajedi]

I don’t mean this in a horrible way, but I personally think it’s none of your business to figure out his sexuality. He’s your ex, not current husband. I understand the nature of feeling like you need to find resolution but I don’t really feel it’s something you should put emotional energy in, it’s a bit out of bounds in my personal opinion.

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Lesley, calm down.  We've all been there.  It's a frustrating form of moderation, I know.  One good thing about us is that you will never ask "are they gay or straight?".  We're friendly, open and we all have nice wieners.    What's not to love, right?

I don't have a weiner   lol.  but i do have nice boobs, hahaha I'm in the minority though so i guess most of us on here have weiners, lol.

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True, he is very wounded and diagnosed with personality disorder. So, it is probably that. I wasn't asking based on fears, just wanted to get to the bottom of another lie. I think it has more to do with my control issues and wanting an answer to everything...and that isn't real life. I hate unresolved issues. As for being a repressed lesbian, lol, no sir. I like men very much. Women would be like doing it with my sister. I prefer big, strong men with nice wieners. I was hoping gay men might have a magical radar or something to help me out.

Lesley, maybe you just never tried the right woman  ....I kid of course. just messing with ya.