05-14-2017, 05:21 PM
You're a lot more likely to lose him by cheating than by asking for what you want. Also, you sound like a decent guy and I think cheating wouldn't be the answer for you.
That being said, approach it carefully. From something you said, I think a threesome might be on your list. Don't ask for that first. Start with something small, something he might possibly agree to, and go from there. Slowly.
You might try asking him if there are things he'd like to try but is nervous asking for. Ask him if he ever thinks of doing something new, but is afraid to ask because you might get mad. Lol this is called having a conversation, and it's how we accomplish most things in life. Seriously though, you need to talk to him. After 9 years together, I doubt he'd just walk out on you over something like this.
That being said, approach it carefully. From something you said, I think a threesome might be on your list. Don't ask for that first. Start with something small, something he might possibly agree to, and go from there. Slowly.
You might try asking him if there are things he'd like to try but is nervous asking for. Ask him if he ever thinks of doing something new, but is afraid to ask because you might get mad. Lol this is called having a conversation, and it's how we accomplish most things in life. Seriously though, you need to talk to him. After 9 years together, I doubt he'd just walk out on you over something like this.
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