Im not sure if Im gay straight or bi????

[TwisttheLeaf]

I need some advice and I hope there are some of you that have gone through similar situations as me. Im not sure if I am gay or straight or bi. Here are the facts.

I've known I was into men since my very first crush as a kid. That said? I didn't become interested in girls too until my mid-teens. From there I became progressively more... open minded, I guess you might say.

I guess what I'm saying is that there's a wide array of preferences out there, and there's nothing wrong with either of them. Neither do you just "fit" into one "classification" and that's that. Sometimes, tastes and preferences develop over time.

My friends always tells me that if I were gay they would understand, and my parents always tell me the same. My father said if I were gay he would still love me and he tells me that he supports gay rights. The girls at school always ask me if I am gay all of the time.

It sounds like you have a wonderful support system. Lots of love and acceptance is a good thing. They might be a bit misguided on their perceptions, but you have to appreciate the love and acceptance being showered on you, yeah?

I dont dress like a gay person and I dont act gay Im a normal guy. I have posters of naked women up in my room and I look at straight porn and fantasize about women.

Gay people don't dress differently, man. Neither do they "act" differently (other than some of those that are decidedly camp). The huge majority of gay men pass for straight men every day. They're just men.

I have never been molested or anything. I have never had a girlfriend and Im still a virgin with women. Ive been experimenting with guys since I was 10 and...

You've been experimenting with guys since you were 10, and yet you say that you weren't molested. 10 is a little young for a boy to be interested in sex without -some- kind of guidance that would be considered molestation. I'm not saying you're being dishonest, but you might want to consider your past more closely.

I have had sex with alot of guys but I dont fantasize about guys or want to date them. Its like only when Im alone with another guy or bored and he says something like "If you suck mine I will suck yours".

I have personally never met a 100% straight man interested in having another man suck his dick, let alone fuck him. I guess they could be out there, but I've not met one yet. On the other hand, I've met plenty of bisexual men that claim they are straight "with just a little external interest in men". Thus.... bisexual, they just are uncomfortable with the label.

I never told anyone about sex with guys. I have a hard time talking to girls but an easy time talking to guys.

Just because -you- haven't told anyone about sex with guys doesn't mean that those lots of guys you've slept with have kept their mouths shut.

My grandmother said boys only turn gay if they cant get girls or they get molested. I dont know if that is true but probly not. I dont hate gay people or anything but I sort get scared about if I am gay.

Your grandmother's theory is ridiculous.

Why are you scared about being gay (or bisexual)? Knowing what you like and what you're interested usually makes life easier, not more difficult.

Could I be gay and not know it? I will feel stupid if everyone else knows it and Im the last to find out. Did any of you guys go through this?

It's called denial. That is how someone is gay "and not know it". So, in a way, yes... you could be. But from everything you wrote, it sounds far more likely that you're bi.