06-06-2017, 09:44 PM
drobs Wrote:I'm going to be a little un-PC here...My words to him in Private Messages, [MENTION=14205]drobs[/MENTION], but he's looking to hook up with the hot girl just two doors away now. She had the bad idea of undressing in front of him thinking or saying that she shouldn't worry because he's gay. He's never told her he was gay, because, you know what?, maybe he isn't.
What do you mean by "sex with guys."
Traditionally speaking, if you are having anal or oral sex with other guys - you'd be considered bi or gay.
Just dick and ball grabbing / flashing each other / streaking - I know plenty of straight guys that did that growing up and now are fully / raging hetro's.
You giving / receiving a hand job resulting in orgasm to/from another guy -- kinda questionable but probably not gay.
These days sexuality is fluid - lots of folks are getting away from declaring themselves gay or straight. Sex is fun but does it define you as a person? Definitions are becoming fluid.
If you are having fun - enjoy it safely.