Is there a difference between porn gay sex and real-life gay sex?

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Is there a difference between porn gay sex and real-life gay sex?

Or does porn gay sex portray how real-life sex is among most gay men?


I am a gay man myself and am in my 30s. I have never had sex before (regardless of gay or straight).

I have never had the experience of being sexually touched by another person in my life.

I am quite curious how will sex will be like in real life. 

My notion of sex is mostly based on the gay porn that I have been watching so far (like foreplay followed by switching different positions).

Well, I got some good news and some bad news.

Pornography is more along the lines of fantasy. In real life sex is probably more vanilla in that you're not getting your ass pounded like you're tenderizing a slab of beef, especially for the inexperienced. Folks who are inexperienced with sex will probably find sex to be not to be much like porn.

Foreplay is good, it varies as to what you and your partner will like, but it will probably not be like porn.

That being said you can find out what sex is like and depending on your locale you can probably find an app for that, such as Grindr.

In the meantime if you want to get an idea what it's like to be touched by another person without being touched by another person. Let your hand go to sleep and then masturbate with it, or whatever you want for that matter. Of course there's a myriad of toys that can work pretty well.