10-19-2010, 11:40 AM
That is a great answer, Sil 
I agree that talking is really the only way you are going to be able to root through all this to your satisfaction ... until you decide he is still holding something back.
Truth is, we are all different. It sounds to me like your decision is to work out whether the negative value of the differences outweighs the fear of change. Naturally that kind of analysis is harder to work through if this is a first love.
Best wishes and good luck to you both.
I agree that talking is really the only way you are going to be able to root through all this to your satisfaction ... until you decide he is still holding something back.
Truth is, we are all different. It sounds to me like your decision is to work out whether the negative value of the differences outweighs the fear of change. Naturally that kind of analysis is harder to work through if this is a first love.
Best wishes and good luck to you both.
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