11-16-2010, 04:47 AM
If these two are friends, is there anything wrong in one telling the other what's on his mind? ... I mean, what's to stop Anonymous from telling his friend he's gay or thinks he's gay.
I would advise against admitting to the crush though, unless Anon meets with a good reaction and approval or support to this coming out. The fact that people think Anon's crush is gay is no indication that he really is, though, and it would be hurtful to him to assume that people are right about him without his own confession.
I think Anon can out himself if he wishes, but certainly not assume that his friend is gay on the grounds of rumours. If the friends admits that he is too, it doesn't necessarily ensue that he'll want to be Anon's boyfriend or date, despite his crush on him.
But surely they can both remain friends, can't they, whatever each guy's sexual orientation may be?
I would advise against admitting to the crush though, unless Anon meets with a good reaction and approval or support to this coming out. The fact that people think Anon's crush is gay is no indication that he really is, though, and it would be hurtful to him to assume that people are right about him without his own confession.
I think Anon can out himself if he wishes, but certainly not assume that his friend is gay on the grounds of rumours. If the friends admits that he is too, it doesn't necessarily ensue that he'll want to be Anon's boyfriend or date, despite his crush on him.
But surely they can both remain friends, can't they, whatever each guy's sexual orientation may be?
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