Was I too hard on him?

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not at all I had a flamboyant man in me cab when i told him i was gay he said " wow my gaydar must be off I never would have called that." it was funny

Probably because a gaydar only beeps at camp people. lol. Michael McIntyre is camp so a gaydar would probably beep at him even though he is straight. Speaks volumes about what a gaydar really is. How can someone possibly tell if someone else like's their own gender?

Fred, why does it bother you that he assumed you were straight?