Long relationship but lacking sex...HELP!

[princealbertofb]

We are both in our early 20s and yes from what I can tell he enjoys it. I mean we both enjoy it. I have talked to him twice. The first time he was sorry and it changed for a few weeks then it went back to the old way and then the second time I tried to talk to him it turned into a big fight which really hurt me and yeah idk. So I'm really confused. I really don't want to find out there is someone else and ive checked all his profiles and I pay his cell phone and see nothing. Unless it's happening at work there really isn't anyway there could be anyone else. Sighs I don't know what to do. We are so young I figured we would be rabbits but sadly we aren't. I'm a very sexual active guy and this is extremely frustrating.

Looks like you both have different sex drives... it happens. Why don't you suggest having an open relationship (I don't know if you'd like to do that) so that you don't end up frustrated with pent up sexual needs? Do you think it would mean the end of your relationship? Have you thought about threesomes? Maybe you're not clubbing people and don't know how to get that kind of sex, but if you could come to an agreement about having your sex drive sorted, it might spice up your sex lives and rekindle the relationship. If you both agree to an open relationship, then you needn't worry about him having affairs on the side, as you'd both know that you're doing it. I'd say the only rule that really applies here, is to play safe and not bring home any diseases.