01-03-2011, 08:48 PM
I still think it is worth talking to him about it, how he feels about your sex-life, etc. I know you've tried already, and he hasn't really said anything.
My suggestion is that you tell him you want to talk about your sex-life, how he feels about it, etc. Tell him you don't want to talk about it there and then ask him to take, say, a week to think carefully about he feels. Get him to choose and put aside, say, an hour for you two to talk about your sex-life. The point of all that is to create a situation where he has to talk about how he feels and properly listen to how you feel.
I'm not going to go into details, for my partner's sake, but a year ago we struck a really rough patch in the bedroom. I stuck with him and helped him through it, and let's just say we are both enjoying the results of my perseverance.
My suggestion is that you tell him you want to talk about your sex-life, how he feels about it, etc. Tell him you don't want to talk about it there and then ask him to take, say, a week to think carefully about he feels. Get him to choose and put aside, say, an hour for you two to talk about your sex-life. The point of all that is to create a situation where he has to talk about how he feels and properly listen to how you feel.
I'm not going to go into details, for my partner's sake, but a year ago we struck a really rough patch in the bedroom. I stuck with him and helped him through it, and let's just say we are both enjoying the results of my perseverance.
Fred
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
![[-]](https://gayspeak.com/images/duende_v3_local/collapse.png)
