Long relationship but lacking sex...HELP!

[peyre24]

Without wanting to make you paranoid, it nevertheless seems like something else might be going on here. Yes, sex drives vary between two partners and fluctuate over time. The best way to keep on the same page about this is through communication. But if your attempts to discuss the situation have erupted in a fight, well, that raises a red flag. I can tell you that I was in a similar situation in a former relationship. I too found it odd that a then 20-something year old should loose interest in sex. Low and behold, the guy was spending a significant amount of time with his web cam and his virtual exploits ultimately took a toll on our sex life. Try talking to your bf again. If he continues to grow defensive or combative during the conversation, you should read the signs and trust your instincts. Good luck.