11-05-2007, 10:22 PM
No worries babe - there are a BILLION questions that go through your mind at a time like that ...
"Should I tell him how I feel ?"
"What if it scares him away ?"
"What if he already knows ?"
"What if he doesn't know, but he's cool with it ?"
"What if he says (in an ideal world) he'd like to give it a go ?"
"Ok so that's unlikely, but what if he's ok with carrying on as we are ?"
"What's the right thing to do ?"
... and so on ...
I know exactly how you feel ...
One thing we tend to underestimate when viewing the situation from a single perspective though, is just how observant other people can be ...
He didn't bawk when you sent him those three kisses - he responded with ... what was it ? *manly hug* ?? Which, whilst I don't want to overinflate the situation as that won't benefit anybody, was a nice response on his part, so it's quite possible that he already has a sense that you might be ... let's say "rather keen" on him ...
mile:.
Bottling things up is a very understandable way of trying to deal with it - I tried to do that for years, but it got to the stage where I started to fray a bit at the edges (a marked understatement, but there we go), and just had to get it off my chest ... :redface:.
Anyhow - as I say, I'm here if you need me - it's an open-ended invitation xx
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
"Should I tell him how I feel ?"
"What if it scares him away ?"
"What if he already knows ?"
"What if he doesn't know, but he's cool with it ?"
"What if he says (in an ideal world) he'd like to give it a go ?"
"Ok so that's unlikely, but what if he's ok with carrying on as we are ?"
"What's the right thing to do ?"
... and so on ...
I know exactly how you feel ...
One thing we tend to underestimate when viewing the situation from a single perspective though, is just how observant other people can be ...
He didn't bawk when you sent him those three kisses - he responded with ... what was it ? *manly hug* ?? Which, whilst I don't want to overinflate the situation as that won't benefit anybody, was a nice response on his part, so it's quite possible that he already has a sense that you might be ... let's say "rather keen" on him ...
mile:.Bottling things up is a very understandable way of trying to deal with it - I tried to do that for years, but it got to the stage where I started to fray a bit at the edges (a marked understatement, but there we go), and just had to get it off my chest ... :redface:.
Anyhow - as I say, I'm here if you need me - it's an open-ended invitation xx
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
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