11-06-2007, 04:43 PM
Don't discount your sense of smell,
They say that is how so many of us actually fall in love with another person. When they talk about "chemistry" in a relationship, that is what is meant. Our noses go first. So the people we may have nothing in common with at all and can't figure out why we are hooked? Quite possibly the nose is at fault!
But I see no reason why you shouldn't meet up. He is straight by the way so it's not like you are meeting for a date. So you get to make (possibly) a new friend while (most likely) putting your crush into place when you realize in person that it's not going to work.
Unless he turns out to be absolutley perfect and one of those huggy hetero's which may mess you up a bit :-) But chances are you'll be in good shape. You may make a new friend and the reality check of real life should dispell the crush...at least sooner rather than later.
They say that is how so many of us actually fall in love with another person. When they talk about "chemistry" in a relationship, that is what is meant. Our noses go first. So the people we may have nothing in common with at all and can't figure out why we are hooked? Quite possibly the nose is at fault!
But I see no reason why you shouldn't meet up. He is straight by the way so it's not like you are meeting for a date. So you get to make (possibly) a new friend while (most likely) putting your crush into place when you realize in person that it's not going to work.
Unless he turns out to be absolutley perfect and one of those huggy hetero's which may mess you up a bit :-) But chances are you'll be in good shape. You may make a new friend and the reality check of real life should dispell the crush...at least sooner rather than later.