08-15-2011, 11:14 AM
For me it is very easy to answer .... I´m not the owner of my man and he is not my owner... so if I think it is alright to cuddle ( I hate cuddling ) or kiss my best friend ( male or female ) he has to accept it... like I have to accept if he does.
I decided to live with my man .. not with my best friend and so it is a very clear situation.
By example... We have a very good straight male friend ( I know him longer then I know my man )...and if he visits us, he want to sleep in our bed ... and mostly he sleeps with his head on my chest ( Why he does is a long story an not important here ) The first time my man was a bit irritated.... but the next morning I showed my man my chest and said " Look ... nothing damaged ... all things are where they have to be, only the hairs are a bit flat"
But that is our / ,my way ... other people have other views ...and if I know that it would hurt my bf... I would be careful. My opinion is, when I show my man that there is nothing secret in friendhips with other people nobody has to react jealous.
I decided to live with my man .. not with my best friend and so it is a very clear situation.
By example... We have a very good straight male friend ( I know him longer then I know my man )...and if he visits us, he want to sleep in our bed ... and mostly he sleeps with his head on my chest ( Why he does is a long story an not important here ) The first time my man was a bit irritated.... but the next morning I showed my man my chest and said " Look ... nothing damaged ... all things are where they have to be, only the hairs are a bit flat"
But that is our / ,my way ... other people have other views ...and if I know that it would hurt my bf... I would be careful. My opinion is, when I show my man that there is nothing secret in friendhips with other people nobody has to react jealous.