08-15-2011, 04:46 PM
Thankyou. I really appreciate the perspective of someone outside the situation.
It is something I think about. When I get a bf I know sleepovers/sharing bed with my gbf would have to stop and prob rightly so I guess u cd say why is it diff other way round? But I know gay relationships (that I've seen from hanging around my gay friends and pubs) do tend to be alot more open (in general, not all couples of course) but if I had a bf I wdnt change kissing my gbf on lips in greetings and things. I do know he (my gbf) wd act jealous if I have a bf and he didn't and I tried to change things - he's got mad before when I've wanted to see a guy I was dating instead of going out with him on a planned night out and also - infront of another guy I brought round to introduce to him - he sat right next to me with his arm around me and then stripped off his top and stood infront of me (between me and my date guy) and asked me to tickle his back then told my date-guy "stories" about my sexual conquests (half of which was exaggerated). Luckily I didn't like the guy enough to wanna see him again otherwise I might have been cross at my gbf.
marshlander Wrote:One partners up not just for sex, but for intimacy and your relationship with your gbf sounds about as intimate as it's possible to get. How much room does that leave either of you for a boyfriend?
It is something I think about. When I get a bf I know sleepovers/sharing bed with my gbf would have to stop and prob rightly so I guess u cd say why is it diff other way round? But I know gay relationships (that I've seen from hanging around my gay friends and pubs) do tend to be alot more open (in general, not all couples of course) but if I had a bf I wdnt change kissing my gbf on lips in greetings and things. I do know he (my gbf) wd act jealous if I have a bf and he didn't and I tried to change things - he's got mad before when I've wanted to see a guy I was dating instead of going out with him on a planned night out and also - infront of another guy I brought round to introduce to him - he sat right next to me with his arm around me and then stripped off his top and stood infront of me (between me and my date guy) and asked me to tickle his back then told my date-guy "stories" about my sexual conquests (half of which was exaggerated). Luckily I didn't like the guy enough to wanna see him again otherwise I might have been cross at my gbf.