09-07-2011, 07:59 PM
There is nothing creepy about asking him out or telling him you are interested in him. If there is...I am the biggest creep on the planet because I let someone know right away if I was interested in them...upfront and immediate.
I know alot of times people fear rejection and fortunately that was never one of my fears (I have a zillion other fears instead)...I used to tell my friends who were not so bold and who feared rejection how wonderful rejection was...if you find out immediately that the other person isnt' interested in you it really frees up alot of your timemile: If you feel crushed or think you might feel crushed just think of all the guys you would never be interested in because of your own personal taste/preference and then you realize it is nothing personal anyway.
I know alot of times people fear rejection and fortunately that was never one of my fears (I have a zillion other fears instead)...I used to tell my friends who were not so bold and who feared rejection how wonderful rejection was...if you find out immediately that the other person isnt' interested in you it really frees up alot of your timemile: If you feel crushed or think you might feel crushed just think of all the guys you would never be interested in because of your own personal taste/preference and then you realize it is nothing personal anyway.