11-29-2011, 05:49 PM
Jay....people can be unbelievably cruel and thoughtless.
I can feel your pain from your post here and that will subside with time but dont' let it break you...there are so many good people in the world who deserve your trust and friendship so you have to remember one thing and I hope you can take this with you from the situation.
What happened with these guys and how they behaved is a reflection of who they are and it has nothing to do with you. You have seen a true example of their character...they hid behind false personalities. The best revenge is to live well which I would interpret as not allowing these weak minded people to have any real effect on you...
Sadly there will be more men like Chris and the gang and when you wear your heart on your sleeve as you do this might happen so it is important to understand that it has nothing at all to do with you and everything about it has to do with who they are...they are not worthy of your time or your friendship...
I am so sorry you have to deal with this at this time...remember your long term goal and the moment you have been waiting for and try to focus on that...you are so much more of a man than they will ever be.
...take care my friend.
I can feel your pain from your post here and that will subside with time but dont' let it break you...there are so many good people in the world who deserve your trust and friendship so you have to remember one thing and I hope you can take this with you from the situation.
What happened with these guys and how they behaved is a reflection of who they are and it has nothing to do with you. You have seen a true example of their character...they hid behind false personalities. The best revenge is to live well which I would interpret as not allowing these weak minded people to have any real effect on you...
Sadly there will be more men like Chris and the gang and when you wear your heart on your sleeve as you do this might happen so it is important to understand that it has nothing at all to do with you and everything about it has to do with who they are...they are not worthy of your time or your friendship...
I am so sorry you have to deal with this at this time...remember your long term goal and the moment you have been waiting for and try to focus on that...you are so much more of a man than they will ever be.
...take care my friend.