01-11-2012, 08:19 PM
Jay,
One thing you have to realise is that what happened with Chris and Nick was going to happen if not now, it would have happened somewhere down the track. It's just so unfortunate that it did happen at a time when you had so much on your plate.
I'm so pleased to hear that you are recovering a lot quicker than even your doctors expected, thats and awesome credit to you and your determination to keep fit and healthy. I can understand why you are nervous at the sacrifice you have to make with your nipples, it's daunting, but at the same time it isn't like you are losing an arm or a leg. You are getting the body you want but you will come out at the other end with numb nipples.
Don't rush your 'sorting out' phase, take your time. Try not to bottle too much up Jay, because keeping things to yourself can be just as harmful emotionally as the situations that you have had to deal with. I understand there are probably things that you need to keep private and I admire your resolve, but if you ever feel like it is getting too much, know that you have me, and I know there are others here that will say the same as me, to be here for you even if its just as a sounding board.
Good Luck Jay, you're an awesome person who deserves the best.
One thing you have to realise is that what happened with Chris and Nick was going to happen if not now, it would have happened somewhere down the track. It's just so unfortunate that it did happen at a time when you had so much on your plate.
I'm so pleased to hear that you are recovering a lot quicker than even your doctors expected, thats and awesome credit to you and your determination to keep fit and healthy. I can understand why you are nervous at the sacrifice you have to make with your nipples, it's daunting, but at the same time it isn't like you are losing an arm or a leg. You are getting the body you want but you will come out at the other end with numb nipples.
Don't rush your 'sorting out' phase, take your time. Try not to bottle too much up Jay, because keeping things to yourself can be just as harmful emotionally as the situations that you have had to deal with. I understand there are probably things that you need to keep private and I admire your resolve, but if you ever feel like it is getting too much, know that you have me, and I know there are others here that will say the same as me, to be here for you even if its just as a sounding board.
Good Luck Jay, you're an awesome person who deserves the best.
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