11-30-2011, 03:37 AM
Some (not all) people can actually dissolve a relationship and still be good friends.
It is possible that that is what is happening here.
However your BF's attitude about your concerns is not nice, and damaging to the relationship.
Between these two extremes there is a middle ground. He should cut back on his visiting Ex visiting and you should allow some visiting time (with you present to prevent hanky-panky thus giving you peace of mind).
If he can't understand your emotional need here, I suspect that he won't be able to understand your other emotional needs.
That does not bode well for a long term relationship.
It is possible that that is what is happening here.
However your BF's attitude about your concerns is not nice, and damaging to the relationship.
Between these two extremes there is a middle ground. He should cut back on his visiting Ex visiting and you should allow some visiting time (with you present to prevent hanky-panky thus giving you peace of mind).
If he can't understand your emotional need here, I suspect that he won't be able to understand your other emotional needs.
That does not bode well for a long term relationship.
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