dont exactly know what to do here

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Why do you feel compelled to 'come out'?

Lets put it another way, when is the last time a straight person came up to you and went through the painful, stammering admittance that they are straight?

I would assume that you just noticed that they were straight, you know their dating a person of the opposite gender may have been a clue, maybe they talked about marrying a person of the opposite gender, or maybe they just pointed out that someone of the opposite gender was 'hot' and you figured out - 'oh, geez, this person is straight'.

The straights are not pressured into 'coming out', there is no reason why you should feel pressured either.

Unless there is a guy you are interested in??? If so then you need only tell him, no one else needs to be told. Surprise them, or just talk naturally about 'stuff' like commenting 'That guy is hot'... Trust me, folk will figure it out if you don't work to hide it.

And when they do say 'Are you gay?!?!?!' - just answer back, "yeah, but you knew that already".