dont exactly know what to do here

[dfiant]

It's not important to run around in full rainbow garb. I'm just trying to figure out the best way to stop playin strait. I trained myself to do it when I was in the Marines I just don't know how to un-train myself

Personality is not 'playing' and there is no such thing as 'straight acting'. The difference between a gay man and a straight man is the gender that they fall in love with.

There is nothing to untrain. A lot of gay men are masculine ( Or so called straight-acting).

There is also no reason to advertise your sexuality, there is no reason to change your personality or characteristics so that people can see that you are gay, so again, there is nothing to untrain.

Just be yourself, and as you have been with the mother of your child, be honest. Your sexuality is your business and there is no need to fit stereotypes to feel that you are a gay man. Don't change a thing.