12-07-2011, 02:19 AM
I talked with him earlier and when we were talking I didn't mention anything about what had happened this past weekend. He said that this girl might stop up later tonight and when he said that he told me that he didn't mean to hide it from me or not to tell me but that I didn't ask about it so he feels that if I don't ask him then he isn't going to say anything.
I feel that what he told me was wrong because what he's essentially saying is that I'm going to keep things secret unless you ask me about it. I think that he should tell me willingly and by hiding it from me unless I ask him is showing that he has something to hide and it's secrecy.
I tell him everything that I do and I never expect him to have to ask me what I'm doing or any questions. I don't hide anything from him and that to me doesn't seem to be fair as far as being with someone.
As far as what the relationship has consisted of we have been friends but he told me that when it comes to guys that he is going to be exclusive with me, and the same thing when it comes to me. But, now with him bringing up that he might do something with another guy makes me feel uncomfortable.
He has cheated when he has had girlfriends and like I stated prior he likes to have sex with a bunch of girls so if that's the case then I'm more inclined to think that he would do the same when it comes to guys. I don't get the part where he says that if he was interested in another dude that he would first contact a girl and if that wasn't successful that he would contact me? It doesn't make sense because if he's interested in someone then he would more than likely get it on with them. Why would he contact a girl or me if he finds someone he's interested in?
I feel that what he told me was wrong because what he's essentially saying is that I'm going to keep things secret unless you ask me about it. I think that he should tell me willingly and by hiding it from me unless I ask him is showing that he has something to hide and it's secrecy.
I tell him everything that I do and I never expect him to have to ask me what I'm doing or any questions. I don't hide anything from him and that to me doesn't seem to be fair as far as being with someone.
As far as what the relationship has consisted of we have been friends but he told me that when it comes to guys that he is going to be exclusive with me, and the same thing when it comes to me. But, now with him bringing up that he might do something with another guy makes me feel uncomfortable.
He has cheated when he has had girlfriends and like I stated prior he likes to have sex with a bunch of girls so if that's the case then I'm more inclined to think that he would do the same when it comes to guys. I don't get the part where he says that if he was interested in another dude that he would first contact a girl and if that wasn't successful that he would contact me? It doesn't make sense because if he's interested in someone then he would more than likely get it on with them. Why would he contact a girl or me if he finds someone he's interested in?
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