Dealing with negative partners

[Almac]

One sentence for me stands out and that is, "When we are together he is lovely and very sweet. When we're apart he's an absolute nightmare, like he just can't handle his own life or emotions." Perhaps he can't handle life without a supportive partner, there are many people on this earth who need that someone special to understand them. Could it be that you're feeling low at the moment and his negative thoughts are getting to you?? Because five years together is a long time, so may be it's you feeling the pressure. Oh and yes "He can't find work, has little money and no family support," can make a person very negative even if they don't wish to be...? There is nothing like having a sit down with your loved with a nice cup of tea and just talking, talking talking, it helps...